https://www.jackssmallengines.com/jacks-parts-lookup/manufacturer/briggs-stratton/briggs-stratton-engine/200000-399999-series/31r700-to-31r799/31r707-0001-g1/air-cleaner-blower-housing-trim-rng-exhaust-system-flywheel The part you refer to is the connecting rod.
To access and change involves pulling the head, side cover and the two connecting rod bolts.
I beileve you have a balancer that lekely needs removal (a lil tricky, but do able).
If there's aluminum (from the rod), onto the crank, it can often be removed with muratic acid and careful polishing. There's numerous video's on YT showing it. The crankshaft (and flywheel) would need removal.
Re parts,-connecting rod, side cover gasket, head gasket, valve cover gasket and I believe that'll do it.
Look up the parts on the link I provided for the parts and prices. If you can feel that rod have movement (more than approx .003"), it NEEDS attention. If not repaired, the engine will eventually
literally blow up putting the rod thru the block (now a parts machine).
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